Love is a bitter pill...

They were some high times - literally and figuratively.  You met at a party, and free drinks always lead to something good, something dangerous, or sexy .  In this case, it was great.

You were loose enough to open up and quickly realized there was a powerful connection.  But here you are, months maybe years later, and this person you love is still partying but your not.  Before you groan, I promise you that this isn't an article about addiction.

It's about connection, and what to do when there isn't one.  The point of the  lead-in here is that as people change and evolve, so must relationships.  Maybe a few years ago, going overboard didn't come with great consequences and now, it may.

Maybe when you met, you looked at life differently than you do now; you've changed but the relationship is the same.  It could be that the relationship changed and you are the same.  In any case, you must orient yourself to where the problem lies.

If you're considering ending a relationship because you feel disconnected from the person you wake up next to. It may help to consider why.  It may be the path they've chosen in their career; maybe it's their overall priorities, the place they want to live or that their friends are more important than anything else - ANYTHING else...

Only you know.  But I'll tell you this: if you don't feel connected, it's not their habits, the fact that they don't help around the house, or that they're not romantic anymore.

Maybe they're not interested in sex.  All those things are symptoms.  And when we get hung up on symptoms, we fight.  And we lose.  All of us.  You, your significant other, and - if i happen to be your next door neighbor - me.

So forget about the symptoms.  Look at the illness, and - if you're sure the disconnect is permanent, you know the only cure.  And the only thing you both need to drink is your medicine.

How to Talk to a Girl You Like

Talking to girls is hard for some men. They get tongue-tied and stammer and go all red in the face. They end up making themselves look a fool in front of everyone. It’s so embarrassing isn’t it? Attracting women can be tough if you don’t know how.

But what if you could learn how to attract girls easily? Wouldn’t that be great?

Do You Have Trouble Talking To Girls?

Yep, there are a lot of dating books around that will show you how to attract women but they all seem to say the same things. I reckon women are getting wise to these cheesy canned openers and story lines by now don’t you?

In fact if you followed some of their tips about dating and attraction there’s a good chance that you have screwed up YOUR chances with women so far.

The reality is, their are MUCH BETTER dating techniques which will stop you from making costly mistakes with women.

It’s time to start afresh with something that really works.

You can find all about these deadly seduction techniques in a new dating system that changes everything you thought you knew about attracting women.

It’s called Deadly Seduction and it takes a different approach in teaching guys to seduce women, but the good thing is that it really works!

In fact here is a video from a girl that it worked on!

Her new boyfriend used Deadly Seduction on her and it did the trick. Lucky guy!

Talking to a girl you like should not be something complicated. The first thing that you have to remember is make the conversation about her! 

Girls really appreciate it when men make the time to get to know her by really listening to what she has to say. It’s good to impress her with smart questions, but you will have a better chance if you merely respond to what she tells you. 

You’ll notice that she picks up on the fact that you are intently listening to her and she will return the favor by giving you the turn to say something about yourself.

If you want to find out the real secrets to picking up girls then Deadly Seduction looks like it has all the answers.

You can read more about it at  http://www.instphil.org/

Oh, and this guy seemed to like it too. ;-)

The Best Relationship Advice

Some people believe that saving a relationship is an uphill battle. But that simply isn’t true. Armed with the correct advice along with a healthy dose of knowledge in regards to the emotional hot buttons that all human beings have, anyone can save almost any relationship that they desire.

All it takes is little bit of unconventional wisdom and the ability to follow simple directions. So if you have been faced with some recent relationship issues and are looking for ways to stay with your significant others, then you should know that it is possible.

Relationship Tips That Will Transform Your Love Life 

Have you recently cheated and your spouse or significant other found out about it? Are they threatening to leave you or have they already walked out the door? Are you scrambling around trying to get back into their good graces but not really knowing how to make things right?

If you answered yes to any of those questions then you are in need of some real relationship advice that you can use right away.

All men and women have certain emotional hot buttons that can be affected by certain words or acts. It is just a matter of recognizing the triggers and using them to your advantage.

Even if you were unfaithful to your spouse or significant other, there are still ways to get back into their arms by using little known psychological methods that are almost guaranteed to get them to run right back into your arms in a short period of time.

If you are in a relationship and everything seemed fine one day but you found yourself single the next day with no real explanation then you certainly are not alone. All too often relationships end with no clear reason why.

Although this can be difficult, saving a relationship that has ended for no real reason can be done. However, instead of groveling or begging for a chance with your ex, there are more effective ways to get your point across and to gain the upper hand emotionally so that they are the one to come running back to you.

Just as all relationships are not created equally, certain types of relationship advice are just more effective than others. Don’t be fooled by “free” advice that just offers generalities and sympathy rather than real techniques that offer a plan of action that can be followed in order to generate a reaction from your ex.

What you need is simple advice that can be broken down into stages and followed step by step until you reach your goal of saving a relationship.

One of the common factors that people are often concerned about when trying to save a relationship or rekindle one with an ex is about when to have certain types of physical contact. Yes, there are times when it is appropriate and times when it can severely hurt your chances of getting back together.

That’s yet another reason to use advice that can give you examples of each type of situation so that you do not make a mistake and ruin what you are working for.

In regards to saving a relationship, it can take a little bit of time and effort, especially if you are the only one that is working towards the goal of getting back together or staying together. But with the right techniques and tools at your disposal, you can again make yourself and your significant other very happy.